What Do You Say To Someone in an Elevator … FAQ
Why did you write the book?
The reason words are so important is because of the difference we can make in the lives of others with just a few well chosen words. This would seem especially true in those awkward moments in life when we only have a few seconds or minutes to say or do something that can touch another human being deeply.
What is the focus or theme of the book?
Awkward occasions that make us uncomfortable are a common, almost daily occurrence. They happen in line-ups at the supermarket, in hospital waiting rooms, at the bank, in elevators, at airports lounge or waiting areas, in airplanes, and in dozens of other situations. Why are they so awkward and is there anything we can do to prepare for these occasions to make them more tolerable? What do you say to someone in an elevator tackles this common dilemma that every human being has faced many times in their life.
Why is it important for people to read this book?
People who read this book will be encouraged to think “outside the box” about their own behaviour and how they can influence others in difficult or awkward situations. They will also be encourage to prepare for these situations in order to take better advantage of them.
What makes this book different from others on humour?
This book does not attempt to create situations in order to be funny. It simply takes advantage of those situations that occur several times every day when, if we were to think about it, we could laugh at ourselves or others in a kind and gentle way.
Words that describe the book?
- Humourous
- Dealing with awkward moments or occasions
- Preparing for uncomfortable moments
- How to handle embarrassing moments
- A guide for shy people
Was this the original title you had in mind?
No. My first title was “What to Say to Someone in an Elevator”. However, the more I thought about this the more I realized that I wanted to leave the reader with a question rather than the answer.

